Melinda French Gates: Divorce, Relationships, and Life After Bill

Melinda French Gates moved from co-chair of the world’s largest private foundation to building her own philanthropic identity after a divorce that reshaped her public and financial life. Here is what is known about her net worth, her relationships, and her independent path.

Net worth (2024 estimate): $10 billion  |  Number of children: 3  |  Years married to Bill Gates: 27 (1994–2021)  |  Foundation co-founded: Bill & Melinda Gates Foundation (2000)

Why did Melinda French leave Bill Gates?

The divorce announcement on May 3, 2021 shocked the philanthropic world. After 27 years of marriage, Melinda French Gates filed for divorce, citing an irretrievable breakdown. Public reports later revealed that Melinda had long been troubled by Bill’s association with Jeffrey Epstein. In a 2021 interview with CBS This Morning, Melinda said she had raised concerns about Epstein as early as 2013 and that Bill’s continued meetings with Epstein were a major factor. “I had to think about what I wanted my future to look like,” she later told Fortune in 2022, calling the post-divorce foundation work “unbelievably painful in innumerable ways.”

What were the contributing factors?

Beyond Epstein, there were reported disagreements over how to deploy the foundation’s billions, with Melinda favoring more direct investment in women’s causes. Bill’s 2020 departure from Microsoft’s board amid an investigation into an affair with a female employee also added strain. The couple’s statement read: “After a great deal of thought and a lot of work on our relationship, we have made the decision to end our marriage.”

What role did Jeffrey Epstein play?

Melinda told The New York Times that she felt “uncomfortable” about Bill’s relationship with Epstein. She had reportedly set a boundary in 2013 that Bill should no longer meet with Epstein, but Bill continued to do so. Epstein’s 2019 arrest and suicide brought the issue into public view. Melinda later said: “I thought about it a lot. It’s hard.”

Is Melinda Gates in a relationship now?

As of 2025, Melinda French Gates is reportedly in a relationship with Jon Flax, a former Microsoft executive. The couple was seen together at the 2024 US Open and other events. She has not remarried. A representative declined to comment to People magazine.

Who is Melinda French Gates currently dating?

Jon Flax, a venture capitalist and former Microsoft product manager, has been linked to Melinda since 2023. They share a passion for philanthropy and technology. Flax’s LinkedIn profile lists him as a partner at a Seattle-based venture firm.

Has she remarried?

No public records or statements indicate she has remarried. She continues to use the surname “French Gates.”

How much did Bill Gates’ ex-wife get?

The exact divorce settlement was not publicly disclosed. Forbes estimated Melinda’s net worth at about $3.2 billion immediately after the divorce was finalized in August 2021, while Bill’s was about $131 billion. By 2024, Melinda’s net worth had grown to an estimated $10 billion, factoring in asset appreciation and her share of the Gates Foundation’s endowment. In May 2024, Melinda announced she would have an additional $12.5 billion to commit to her work on behalf of women and families as part of her separation agreement from the foundation.

What was the divorce settlement amount?

Investopedia calls it one of the most expensive divorces in history, but no official number exists. The $2.4 billion in securities transferred to Melinda on the day of the divorce announcement is the only verified public transfer. (Town & Country)

Did Melinda receive stocks or cash?

She received a mix of stocks and bonds from Cascade Investment, but no large cash payout. She also retained ownership of her 50% share of the couple’s real estate and art collection.

Are Bill and Melinda still friends?

The relationship has been described as “cordial but strained.” They continue to co-chair the Gates Foundation, but Melinda stepped down as co-chair in June 2024. In her resignation letter, she said: “I am immensely proud of the foundation we built together and of the extraordinary work it is doing. But after careful thought, I have decided to step down.” Bill responded with a statement praising her contributions.

Do they co-parent?

Yes, they have three children together—Jennifer, Rory, and Phoebe—and have been seen attending family events together, such as Jennifer’s wedding in 2021.

Do they work together at the foundation?

They no longer directly collaborate. Melinda’s departure from the board marks a full separation of their professional lives. She now leads Pivotal Ventures, with the additional $12.5 billion commitment from the separation agreement.

Who is Bill Gates’s new partner?

Bill Gates confirmed a relationship with Paula Hurd in 2023. Paula Hurd is the widow of former Oracle CEO Mark Hurd. They were first seen together at the Australian Open in 2023 and have since appeared at several public events. Bill has not publicly discussed the relationship in depth.

Who is Paula Hurd?

Paula Hurd is a businesswoman and philanthropist, active in education and technology. She sits on the board of several nonprofit organizations. Her late husband Mark Hurd died in 2019.

How long have they been together?

The relationship became public in early 2023. Page Six reported they had been dating “quietly for several months.”

“After a great deal of thought and a lot of work on our relationship, we have made the decision to end our marriage.” — Bill Gates, joint statement, May 2021

“I believe that with wealth comes responsibility … I am committed to giving the majority of my wealth back to society.” — Melinda French Gates, Giving Pledge letter

Timeline of Key Events

• 1987: Melinda meets Bill Gates while working at Microsoft.
• 1994: Married in Hawaii.
• 2000: Co-founded Gates Foundation.
• 2015: Launched Pivotal Ventures.
• May 2021: Announced divorce.
• August 2021: Divorce finalized.
• 2023: Bill confirmed relationship with Paula Hurd.
• 2024: Melinda left Gates Foundation board.

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